Setup Help. Cant connect

[Vasty]

I've read every post on here about the connection issues and tried everything I can think of to get the demo working. I really love this chat and would love to get it working and buy it.

When I try to connect to my domain I get the connecting box with the green dots and it just stays there trying to connect forever.

My infomation:
I'm running Abyss Web Server.
I have all my ports forwarded on my router.
Windows XP Pro
No-Ip.Com DUC Setup

My Client.xml file:
<!--123 Flash Chat Client Confiugation - Version 6.8.1
Note:
In Windows, you may open client.xml in notepad to edit client.xml.
If you now open it with IE browser, you may check source code by right-click to edit it directly.
In Unix, you may use "vi" to edit client.xml.

After modifying this configuration file, please open it in a browser to test if it can display correctly.
If syntax error pop up, please configure it again before launching the chat room.-->

<!-- host
If your chat room will be open on internet or in your intranet,
please change the host value, it could be the host name or ip address.
The ip address must be that of the server which host your chat server.
The host name must direct to the IP address of the server which host your chat room. eg.:www.yourhost.com ,
Don't put it in url format like http://www.yourhost.com, neither in this format www.yourhost.com/chat/index.html.
-->
<host value="vasty.no-ip.org" />

<!-- The port used to connect to the server must coordinate with that of your server.
It must be between 1024 and 65535.
And please make sure that the firewall of your server or client allow the tcp visit from this port.
Default port: 51127 -->
<port value="51127" />

<!-- homeUrl
Set your homepage address.
Then the left-top logo will direct visitors to your homepage in a new browser window .
If left blank, the link on logo will be disabled.-->
<homeUrl value="http://vasty.no-ip.org" />

<!-- helpUrl
The URL of the help file of your flash client.
When clicking the right-top "help" button, this help page will pop up in a new browser window.-->
<helpUrl value="help/index.html" />

<!-- registerUrl
Specify null for this parameter unless you're authorizing users by external database.
In your fcserver.xml, if the value of integrated-other-database is not "None",
then you must have integrated your own user database.
In this case, please enter register URL in your system here.-->
<registerUrl value="" />

<!-- copyright
Set your company copyright information, which will display in about window,
Note: It can't be changed until you purchase the chat server license. -->
<copyright value="Copyright 2008 VastySoft. All Rights Reserved." />

<!-- loadRootPath
Defines the directory where you've located the Language and skin folders. Usually you just leave it blank.
But if you put them on another server, please set it to http://url/
eg: http://www.123flashchat.com/chat/
Don't forget the "/" at the end. -->
<loadRootPath value="http://vasty.no-ip.org/" />

<!-- language
Choose interface language from our collection. In current version, we provide following languages:
1) en - English (default)
2) zh-CN - Simplified Chinese
3) zh-TW - Traditional Chinese
4) nl - Dutch
5) fr - French
6) ja - Japanese
7) es - Spanish
8) de - German
9) it - Italian
10)hu - Hungarian
11)ru - Russian
12)hr - Croatian
13)tr - Turkey
14)ar - Arabic
15)pt - PORTUGUES
16)ko - Korean
17)serbian - Serbian
18)pl - Polish
19)no - Norwegian
20)farsi - Farsi
21)el - Greek
22)iceland - Iceland
23)cs - Czech
24)da - Danish
25)fi - Finnish
26)sv - Swedish
Note: the language files are located under folder: <loadRootPath>/lang/
You can also translate it into your own language and save it as language_***.xml. Put it into the same folder and edit client.xml, then you get a local version of 123flashchat.

language value can either be defined to "*" or a definite language name.
If "*", it will automatically detect the language of every user's Operating System and assign a corresponding language to user from the existing language collection.
If a definite language name, it will only directly load the specified language instead of detecting user's OS language.
-->
<language value="*" />

<!-- skin
We offer following skins:
1) default - Professional skin design.
2) standard - Aqua blue skin. scalable vector skin.
3) beige - Aqua beige skin. scalable vector skin.
4) angel - Black metallic bitmap skin. kinda cool.
5) hawaii - Aqua black skin. scalable vector skin.
6) classic - Blue bitmap skin.
7) green - Green skin. scalable vector skin.
8) red - Red& black skin. scalable vector skin.
9) orange - Orange skin. scalable vector skin.
10) clean - Aqua blue & gray skin. scalable vector skin.
You can design a new skin based on our skins.
Here're some tutorials might be helpful to designers:
a) HowTo customize skin? http://www.123flashchat.com/howtoskin.html
b) HowTo change skin color? http://www.123flashchat.com/colormap.html
c) HowTo change background? http://www.123flashchat.com/howto_change_bkground.html
-->
<skin value="default" />

<!-- profileUrl
Normally you just leave it as default "false" to disable this function.
But if you've already integrated your own database with the chat system,
and you want the user profile to be linked, you can set profile URL here.
Then by activating a user from user list, a small menu will popup,
clicking the "profile" from the menu, you'll be directed to his or her profile page in a new browser window.
eg: http://yourwebsite/profile.php?user=%USER%
Note: you can add more than one item in profileUrl tag, for instance, one for profile, one for photo link.
by the way, it's %USER%, not %username%.
-->
<profileUrl enable="true">
<item name="Profile" url="http://vasty.no-ip.org/chat/profile.php?user=%USER%" />
</profileUrl>

It works if I goto my router ip:35555 or localhost:35555 but not if I goto http://vasty.no-ip.org/chat/client or even http://vasty.no-ip.org/chat/client/standard.html

My root directory is on my D: drive at D:\Website and the chat is under a subdirectory called Chat so I have D:\website\chat and D:\website\chat\client

The server is under D:\website\chat\server

Any help would be appreciated. Thanks

[Vasty]

Also if I connect with my ip addy the windows one that is the 192 ip addy:35555 or localhost everything works and it lets me log in, but the admin panel gives me a connection refused

[Vasty]

Problem Solved. It was the windows firewall that was doing it :-)

I can connect now to the chat rooms, but the admin panel still wont work. Still connection refused on it......Time for some more digging

[xrammyx]

I was having the same problem with mine, and I am glad you found out it was the firewall, because that is what was happening with mine, after digging and digging I finally just turned off the firewall and wow it connects, LOL....Did you figure out your admin panel yet?